This page contains some useful commands for managing the different Nepomuk processes
$ qdbus org.kde.NepomukServer /nepomukserver quit wait for it to quit $ nepomukserver
If you need to restart any particular service -
$ qdbus org.kde.nepomuk.services.$SERVICE /servicecontrol shutdown wait for it to quit $ nepomukservicestub $SERVICE
Just killing the service won't work, cause the 'nepomukserver' automatically restarts crashed services.